First of all, a women weight training is NOT going to "bulk" until after years of serious training, and probably not even then. She will develope good muscle tone and "curves" though, so don't even let that enter into the equation. This is because females (most anyway) just don't have the natural hormones to do so.
Second, there are many ways to start out. I suggest you stay at this site, go back to the home page, read the beginner's page, then go to the weight training section. You have all the info you need. It will point you to a full body routine, 2-3 X week. From there see the templates, it will guide you throughprogram construction, exercise selection, complete with a muscle and exercise Directory which has video clips, and will guide you through set/rep possibilities. For a beginner, 1-3sets in the 8-12 rep range would probably work well. Just do the research, with her goals in mind. If you have questions after that, this forum is a good place to ask.