Matt Z wrote:
Maybe so ... Of course, getting women to go to bed with you and actually knowing what to do when you get there involve two different skill sets. I never was much good at the former, but I have no complaints. I guess I'd rather impress one woman than disapoint many.
Ah, so true. Especially in China where 'one failure to please' can result in a bad rep in no time.... rarely do you get a second chance and she tells all her friends -- no opportunity to disappoint many. So you have to be on top of your game, healthy and physically fit. I guess it's more of a competitive sport than a hobby. Sure beats fishing.
Of course, I only envy those who are good at it. LOL. My dorky upbringing assured me of just a fairly quaint lovelife, although I'm 27 and some stability is nice
I don't think even being dorky is a disadvantage -- you never know what turns girls on. I think the key is that when you're doing the deed, be effective, clean and discreet. If you can manage that, all the things that you think are your shortcomings fade away. So practice, practice, practice. It's a learned skill.