jtw wrote:
So I'm getting married in about 9 months, and naturally enough my fiancee wants to lose weight before the wedding
Come back 2 years after wedding.
You'll wish she still cared.
I kid... sorta.
Good thing is, if you marry for the right reasons, you'll love her more then either way.
At some point though, if it gets out of hand, you'll start to question how much she cares about you, if she lets herself go. On the other hand, it frees you up to go to Taco Bell 4 times a week and stay at a job you cant stand that causes you undo stress because you've lived a protected life and never faced challenges without your mommy around. But soon you'll be inspired by Peyton Manning leading the Colts to SuperBowl victory and move to Alabama, only to bring your good luck with you as Nick Saban capture 2 National Titles.. Roll TIDE.
ymmv.
I've joked recently that i'm becoming one of those bitter old men you see in a bar who have a beer, a whisky, and mutter (mostly racist) remarks under their breath, to themselves.
I fear it may be true.